Where does the attention go?

Own position (ME)
That which distinguishes (differences)

People challenge each other to show and develop their best qualities. It encourages optimal specialisation and division of labour.

  • "Am I getting the position in this network that I want, deserve, need?". 
  • "Can I really trust the others, are they serious, can they make true what they promise? 
  • "Can we also disagree with each other without damage?"

If the answers to such questions are positive, then competition contributes to vital space.